It finally happened. My fiancee revealed her true feelings regarding my crossdressing and gender identity. Unfortunately, it wasn’t good. She admitted her extreme dislike of seeing me dressed as a woman and expressing my feminine self. She also talked about her fears of losing the man she fell in love with. Despite my assurances that I do not intend to fully transition, she knows thats its a promise I can’t really make.
However, something positive has come from this revelation. With us working together to keep our relationship going, I have attended my first session with a gender therapist. The experience was wonderful. It felt like a weight has been lifted to be able to talk to someone about my closeted crossdressing and gender identity exploration, which I have been living with for as long as I can remember. The therapist was very knowledgable and helpful. I’m looking forward to the next session to continue gaining more understanding of my transgender journey. This is just the beginning, but I’m already seeing positive signs of my fiancee warming up to the idea that even though the man she loves is transgendered, she still wants to marry and have a future with me.
Thank you so much,